Honor Bound

And the lord of the vineyard said, “What shall I do?  I will send my beloved son; perhaps they will respect him.” Luke 20:13 (Darby)

Respect – A proper translation requires understanding a word within the cultural setting.  It isn’t sufficient to simply choose a word that represents the same meaning unless the meaning includes the cultural implications.  This parable is an example of a subtle shift where the translation changes the cultural implication.  Ken Bailey notes that Middle Eastern cultures place enormous emphasis on shame.  Public disgrace carries terrible consequences.  Avoiding shame is a powerful motivator.  But respect isn’t quite the same.  The translation of the Greek entrepomai as “respect” does not convey the power of the lord’s decision.  He is not counting on acknowledgment of the son’s status.  He is counting on the shame associated with the behavior of the renters.  If we don’t understand that the real motivation here is to avoid bringing shame upon themselves, we cannot understand why the lord would send his son into an obviously hostile environment.  These men clearly do not respect the lord or anyone else.  But they might wish to avoid the public disgrace further violence will bring upon them.

As it turns out, they care nothing about their public disgrace either.  They kill the son.  Bailey’s commentary on this parable[1] is well worth reading.  The vulnerability of the lord is demonstrated as a strategic decision based on transformed anger.  Bailey shows how crucial Middle Eastern context is in this parable.

Of course, parables are not simply illustrative stories.  Parables make a point.  That point usually has far-reaching application.  In this case, the parable applies to us today just as it applied to the audience that first heard it.  The question it raises is about our shame, not our respect for God’s only Son.  Here is the application:

God owns His creation.  We are the current renters, under an agreement He offers.  We will never be the owners.  What we produce belongs to Him as the owner.  Over centuries, He sent His representatives to collect what was due Him.  We rejected them, often violently, because we desire to own rather than simply occupy.  God had every justification for destroying us as unworthy renters.  Punishment was called for and deserved.  But God turned His justifiable anger into vulnerability and decided to send His Son in the hope that the deepest core of personal ethics would be touched by this act of mercy.  God wanted His renters to feel the shame of their past behavior and turn from their wickedness.  In other words, sending His Son was an act of anticipated forgiveness.  When the renters kill the son (thinking that this will insure their place as owners), they demonstrate that they no longer have even the basic emotions needed to be human.  They don’t even care about their own integrity. This is not only rejection of forgiveness.  It is confirmation of a loss of humanity.  Destruction quickly follows.

The parable raises a crucial question for every listener:  Do you feel shame?  Do you and I feel ashamed at our past response to God’s gracious acts toward us?  Do we weep over our callous rejection of His extended grace when we deserved punishment?  Are we pressed down by the weight of our disgraceful behavior when we violently reacted to His calling?  Do we know shame?

These days the message of the good news seems to give exclusive priority to the joy following forgiveness, but a parable like this one teaches us that the path to forgiveness begins with a recognition of personal shame.  No man who has not been disgraced in his own eyes can understand the vulnerable love of the Lord.


[1] Kenneth Bailey, Jesus Through Middle Eastern Eyes, pp. 410-426.

Topical Index:  shame, respect, Luke 20:13, entrepomai


[1] Kenneth Bailey, Jesus Through Middle Eastern Eyes, pp. 410-426.

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Pam

I’ve never heard Luke 20:13 explained like this before. The concept however is one we discuss (with grandkids mostly) from Jer 6:15 & 8:12 and gives much clarity to both OT & NT passages.

Jer 6:15 “Were they ashamed because of the abomination they have done? They were not even ashamed at all; They did not even know how to blush. Therefore they shall fall among those who fall; At the time that I punish them, They shall be cast down,” says the LORD.
Jer 8:12 “Were they ashamed because of the abomination they had done? They certainly were not ashamed, And they did not know how to blush; Therefore they shall fall among those who fall; At the time of their punishment they shall be brought down,” Says the LORD.

Bless you!

Brian

Good morning Skip,

I haven’t been a student of Mr. Bailey’s writings. I have read people who have studied and commented and critiqued his writings. I know he brings understanding to the oral features of semitic communities; being a part of one himself for several years. It seems we can learn much from his writings, and careful reading and studying is a must. So thank you for that. I will have to purchase some of his materials in the near future.

Brad Young is the scholar I have l have learned much from in regard to the parables of Jesus. He has acknowledged the debt that we owe Kenneth Bailey in regard to understanding the cultural background of the parables. There is much to learn from the shame-and-honor society of the Middle East. Yet, there has been criticisms from scholars on overemphasizing this particular aspect of shame-and-honor by Bailey; while missing the actual themes of the parables. Could this be the case in this parable also? Blessings my brother!

Rader

Thanks Skip! Bailey’s book is a must read. I has brought me into new realms of understanding Yeshua and the distortions surrounding His story much like the teachings we find here.

This teaching also brings me to consider those in the Middle East who seek to bring down America now, how they must feel about the shameless self-promoting American smut that they see on their TVs. If G-d cannot trust the shameless, how can we expect our brothers in the Middle East to trust us when our media presents this picture they find as an abomination. I am thankful for those in media working hard to present art that is full of truth, beauty and humility.

carl roberts

Years I spent in vanity and pride,
Caring not my Lord was crucified,
Knowing not it was for me He died on Calvary.

Mercy there was great, and grace was free;
Pardon there was multiplied to me;
There my burdened soul found liberty at Calvary.

By God’s Word at last my sin I learned;
Then I trembled at the law I’d spurned,
Till my guilty soul imploring turned to Calvary.

Mercy there was great, and grace was free;
Pardon there was multiplied to me;
There my burdened soul found liberty at Calvary.

Now I’ve given to Jesus everything,
Now I gladly own Him as my King,
Now my raptured soul can only sing of Calvary!

Mercy there was great, and grace was free;
Pardon there was multiplied to me;
There my burdened soul found liberty at Calvary.

Oh, the love that drew salvation’s plan!
Oh, the grace that brought it down to man!
Oh, the mighty gulf that God did span at Calvary!

Mercy there was great, and grace was free;
Pardon there was multiplied to me;
There my burdened soul found liberty at Calvary.

“At Calvary”
Words: William Newell (1895)

“A Maskil of Ethan the Ezrahite. I will sing of the lovingkindnesses of the LORD forever; -To all generations I will make known Your faithfulness with my mouth.” (Psalm 89.1)

Michael

“No man who has not been disgraced in his own eyes can understand the vulnerable love of the Lord.”

Hi Skip,

Good point.

Looking back the irony for me was that when I was doing bad things I was protected.

And when I was trying to do the right thing, I was disgraced.