Reflections of The Parable of the Great Debt
“That’s what my heavenly Father will do to you if you refuse to forgive your brothers and sisters from your heart.” Matthew 18:35 NASB
What is the difference between earning your salvation and demonstrating your worthiness? Yeshua’s parable of the servant who owed a great debt challenges our thinking about the concepts of forgiveness and worthiness. In the parable, the servant who owed a great debt is forgiven, but when he fails to demonstrate the same magnanimity toward another, the forgiveness of the king is withdrawn and he is cast into prison to be tortured until he pays. Yeshua concludes the parable with a reflection upon the servant’s demonstration of his unworthiness of the king’s forgiveness.
Clearly the servant does not earn forgiveness. Forgiveness comes as a result of the sympathetic heart of the king, the king’s recognition of the impossibility of the servant’s situation and the application of compassion toward the servant. But none of this removes the requirement of hesed, that is, the necessity of demonstrating the same attitude and action toward others. When the servant fails to do so, he is judged as unworthy of the initial forgiveness shown to him. So while he never earns the king’s forgiveness, he is expected to transform his own behavior based on that event. In other words, he is expected to demonstrate the forgiveness he has experienced and validate the king’s decision.
The distinction helps us differentiate between earning and exhibiting deliverance. First, the two imply different goals. If I believe that I earn my way into righteousness and my goal is to get to heaven, then my actions can be judged on the basis of whether or not they help me achieve that goal. Good acts give me credit toward achieving the goal. Bad acts subtract credit. Therefore, I am engaged in a calculus of earning. As long as I get to heaven, I have accomplished what I set out to achieve.
But what if the goal is not to get to heaven but rather to live a righteous life?
What if my acts are not attempts to get credit but simply expressions of the fact that I am already delivered? This is not the same as the belief that I am already credited with a ticket ot heaven. It is a claim that I have been rescued from the clutches of the yetzer ha’ra in this world, and I will now live out my life in accordance with this change. What if my effort to act righteously is viewed as an effort to demonstrate that deliverance has already occurred? This is demonstrating worthiness after the fact.
How do I show that I am delivered? By making efforts to act in accordance with that deliverance. This demonstrates my subsequent worthiness of the gift bestowed on me. It is not an attempt to earn the gift. The gift has already been given. It is an effort to show the benefactor that his decision to honor me with the gift was a good one. I earn the validation of his decision. I do not earn his decision.
In the West, immortality is achieved by the nobility of our death. Greek legend saw this in terms of the legacy we leave behind. For the Greeks, immortality meant being remembered for noble deeds, especially for a noble death. The more noble the cause that precipitates death, the more glory accrues and the longer we will be remembered. The goal is to leave a legacy that will be remembered for thousands of years. The obstacle is the infinite expanse of eternity and the possibility of being forgotten.
Christianity adopted this Greek view of significance of death. It abandoned the idea that immortality is to be remembered in human history by replacing it with the Dionysian idea of the immortality of the soul. The problem was not legacy but rather eternal reward or punishment. But the determining factor was still the quality of my death. If I died as a believer, my life had achieved its divine purpose and I was rewarded in the next life with immortality. If I died as a non-believer, my life did not achieve its intended divine purpose and I was punished with eternal damnation. The key was not how I lived, but rather how (i.e., in what state) I died. I might live a completely wanton and wicked life as long as I died in a state of belief. Since this leaves a man in the tenuous position of insuring that he “believes” the moment before he dies, the Church simply moved the moment of “death” from physical extinction to spiritual decision. Once I decided to believe the dogma of the Church and accept the proffered free forgiveness, I was accounted as having “died to myself” and therefore worthy of eternal reward no matter what happened in the remaining days of my physical existence on earth. I was saved, which meant that I was going to be rewarded with heavenly continuance, because I “died” in the proper way. The addition of Platonic dualism reinforced the idea that what happened in the intervening physical existence of this world really didn’t matter as long as my spiritual existence was assured.
The Hebraic view of existence is entirely different. In Hebrew thought, what happens after I die is in some significant sense unknown and unknowable. Therefore, the concept of reward and punishment in the afterlife ultimately depends on the choice of YHVH, not on me. The quality of my death is not a determining factor in my participation in the ‘olam ha’ba. What matters in Hebrew thought are my actions and choices here and now. In other words, Hebraic thinking focuses on living rather than dying. Hebrew theology is about how I live because how I live demonstrates whether or not I have entered into a covenant relationship with YHVH, a covenant relationship initiated by Him but manifested by me. My life is a validation of His faithfulness, not an exercise in gaining His approval or my admission. If I truly honor the King, my life will reflect His magnanimity and compassion, and it will reflect it now, on this earth. I will be actively involved in bringing the Kingdom to earth. It will simply be impossible for me to shun the effects of my undeserved gift. To do so would prove that the original offer had no effect.
And I really deserved the torturer.
What matters in Hebrew thought are my actions and choices here and now. In other words, Hebraic thinking focuses on living rather than dying.
…….so the righteous atheist has as much chance of eternal life as the believer, correct?
If the first commandment is “no other gods before me,” then I am not sure what at “righteous” atheist is?
How about agnostic then?
My impression is whatever knowledge you have it’s because He gave it. But you can’t make judgements on people because you don’t know their heart. I think the point of this life (from my minimal understanding) is to form a relationship with him. How do we do that? By doing mitzvots or ‘connecting’ with Him. By product of that in the afterlife – that’s up to Him.
But if you don’t know people’s heart then you don’t know people’s heart. There is a big difference between willfully being lazy, “I know I should pick up the bible, but I don’t want to” and picking it up and saying “This is stupid I can come up with my own rules to run my life”.
When I was an atheist it was because I was willfully disobeying. I would rationalize things to make myself correct, and say stupid lines. Truthfully it started after some things happened in my life and I was pissed at Him. I was quite hurt and in a very dark place. So lot’s started with, “IF THERE WAS A GOD THEN ______” funny you’re not suppose to test God. I wasn’t seeking His face and moment where you could see His hand working in my life, again I would rationalize.
Of course that’s my experience and not everyone’s. But what we know is given to us from Him, not on our own account. He’ll give us more when we search for His face, and we do what He’s already revealed. I’ve yet to hear of someone that wakes up and went to bed knowing nothing, now ‘gets’ it from some Godly intervention while they slept. So if you don’t want to search I highly doubt you are going to find. But I don’t think its for us to make judgements or even speculate off other people’s salvation/chances – or that it’s worthwhile. I feel that speculation is right on the fritz of idolatry. I’m glad it’s not my job to be king, I’m not going to pretend that I could even try – just glad to be a servant.
How can one reflect the Father if one chooses NOT to know the Father?
We are all born with a sense of right (yetzer tov) and wrong (yetzer ha’ra). There has to be a choosing of which of those you will honor in your life. If you chose to honor yourself (yetzer ha’ra) then there is no room for any other.
If you chose to honor the Father then your life will reflect that choice and that gives you power to harness the inclination to do wrong and use it to better purposes, ones that honor the Father.
ALL have that choice to make every moment of every day.
So then the righteous agnostic who lives a “holy” life is no better off than the atheist although he is allowing for the possibility of a God, he just doesn’t “know” God.
I think all righteousness comes through us from beyond us. If we can get away from this thinking that righteousness ORIGINATES with ourselves, we might come up with better ways to ask the question, and to see the answer.
I think the yetzer ha-ra is a complete narcissist. The ego-centric self starts from self as the premise for everything. This would include self as the locus for righteousness. Thus, all false religion is self-based in some way, and all false religion offers some form of working your way into heaven, or, righteousness.
The yetzer tov assumes that the origin of righteousness comes from beyond: that we are so incapable of righteousness (love) that we cannot even conceive of what it is (will it), and so must conform our will to One Who can. The Two Great Commandments give us the correct Order of Operations: first, connect with the correct Origin (YHVH) of love, with all our hearts, minds and souls, and then it will flow through us; will correctly inform the self how to regard itself the way YHVH regards it (we will then know HOW to love ourselves properly) and, then, out of that proper relating to self, know how to turn around and relate to others accordingly (love others as we love ourselves). There is no other origin for the yetzer tov than the origin of the Will of G-d. We don’t know how to will love. We don’t even know what it is unless it gets done to us! I don’t think anybody who has ever acted in love on this planet ever did it unless they became willing for a love from BEYOND themselves to inform and transform them into a willing conduit. A flow intermediary. That submission can be chosen in many ways. Doesn’t change the Source, however. I believe that there have been many righteous heathen (a heathen is different than a wicked person, in that a wicked person knows, but chooses not to obey, but a heathen is simply someone who did not know). Anyone can choose to Do As They WOULD BE Done By, but the POWER to do so must come from beyond. That takes humility. YHVH can meet anyone wherever they are at. Romans 1 gives us all the info we need on this point. Therefore, even the atheists are without excuse! Why? Because even they could choose to become submissive and humble themselves to allow a love from beyond themselves to bless the world around them.
Not all who say “Lord, Lord” will be in that Kingdom, but I am quite sure that all those who allowed Love to reach out through them to those who were “hungry, naked, and imprisoned” will have gotten a real chance to ‘get over themselves’, which is another way of saying that the yetzer ha-ra has been vanquished. This is what we all know at the bottom of our hearts -you know, all us “functional atheists”! We don’t have an excuse, either!
The only thing I would say Laurita is that I do not believe the yetzer ha’ra is ever vanquished. It will always be a part of every human being. It is as much a part of me as yetzer tov. We are simply given the power from something outside of ourselves (God’s spirit) to control it much better. We are no longer a slave to thoughtless sinning.
There is a lot of energy there that can be harnessed for good things rather than self-serving stuff. 🙂
I heartily agree that we are ALL WITHOUT excuse! Everything is a choice.
Laurita, as I am reading Webster I see vanquished is a good word to use actually. I understood it to mean whatever was vanquished was gone, vanished. That is not quite the flavor of that word.
So yup, yetzer ha’ra can be vanquished-conquered in battle in submission!!
My apologies!
I love your considered, measured, honest, funny responses to TW Laurita. I quote what you say frequently to my wife. However we are still left with someone who believes in ONE GOD and tries to live the same kind of moral life that you and I try to do of loving distributive justice for all. Are they not equal in the eyes of God for redemption unless their understanding of God is Hebrew-like?
God I don’t think is looking for perfect theology. But when something is revealed to you as ‘right’ then you do it. God uses where we are at to do good, and also put us there in the first place. He moves us from Egypt to Egypt so he can use us for good. So to answer your question, no I don’t subscribe to the idea that people need to believe what I believe in order to be accepted by God. Very cult like. But people do need to be seeking Him. And yes, there are exclusive parts of a relationship. Our God is an exclusive God, very tribal. So if you want to enter deeper and deeper aspects of a relationship with Him, then you need to have an approach that He said was acceptable. I think that’s really all. But it’s not that He doesn’t love you for where you are at, He put you there – you’re just not suppose to stay there. Again all in my opinion.
Yeshua, why such a disturbing parable?
Why does the Christian culture have such a hard time embracing its implications?
How do we take away our Christian filters and see this profound parable through Semitic, 1st. Century eyes?
No one has commented on the parable. Why?
But maybe we CAN’T take away our filters. Maybe everything we see is really conditioned by what we already think is true. Maybe the only way to actually get the first century picture is to STOP being twenty-first century people.
Skip, I have not had time to respond to your answers (work restraints).
I hope I am able to faithfully express what I believe YHWH is working into my life.
This particular parable and the terrifying aspect of hesed found here has touched me to my bones, and has in a good way, wrecked havoc on my heart.
I believe we do not understand the value and worth that our Father has bestowed upon us.
The Father desires that I walk worthy of the gift of forgiveness He has given me. This is the most humbling, terrifying, and freeing gift in the Universe. He has honored me much! What will be my living response? YHWH, I desire to walk worthy.
The idea of walking worthy of a gift given by someone who is greater than you is so deeply understood within these ancient cultures. Yet the Christian mind is not able to see the beauty and simplicity of this idea found in this parable. Their eyes look through a prism of Greek concepts and thinking that distort its challenge and power. What will loose the Christian world from the moor of a fruitless paradigm?
I believe it is the Spirit of God and suffering.
Skip, your teachings of late have moved me deeply, and I hope toward a movement of fruitfulness and worthiness.
YHWH is King!
I wrote: “I believe we do not understand the ‘value and worth’ that our Father has bestowed upon us. ” Value and worth used together is a bit redundant. (:
You wrote: “Maybe the only way to actually get the first century picture is to STOP being twenty-first century people.”
“Be not conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind . . .”
What? Forgive if you want forgiveness? Are you kidding? Whole entire religious economies have been constructed to get around this simplicity! Do you want to rock the entire boat? Huh? Sit back down!
“This demonstrates my subsequent worthiness of the gift bestowed on me. It is not an attempt to earn the gift. The gift has already been given. It is an effort to show the benefactor that his decision to honor me with the gift was a good one. I earn the validation of his decision. I do not earn his decision.”
I really like this post and have been searching out this topic, but this part (above) bothers me. I really don’t think we CAN earn the validation or ever be worthy of the gift. If I try to and do well it boosts my ego, if I do poorly it devastates me. Which puts the focus back on me, if I do well I am proud of myself, if I do poorly I am disappointed in myself… aren’t both expressions of misplaced pride, in a sense?
Instead of trying to earn validation or demonstrate worthiness shouldn’t our response be motivated by our gratefulness and a desire to please the One who has given such a wonderful gift? A desire to experience the best relationship with our Father possible? Also, a desire to see His will accomplished because we love Him and want what he wants?
But you are right back at the beginning. You still insist that demonstrating your worthiness AFTER receiving the pardon is the equivalent of earning. But the parable clearly says otherwise. It says that the servant did NOT demonstrate worthiness after the gift and was judged accordingly. If we followed your logic, there would be no punishment for not showing worthiness since it could not be earned either. Yes, I can be grateful for the gift, but that isn’t the point of the parable. The parable is about the NECESSITY of hesed, the absolute requirement to act according to the gift given. What really prevents you from embracing this? Could it be that you have been so conditioned by the Christian/Lutheran idea of worthlessness that you can’t see what the parable demonstrates? Who told you that you were completely and totally unworthy even after God puts you in right standing with Him? If what you say is true, then there is no point in even trying to keep the mitzvot since it would be impossible to please God by doing so (you would still have your own ego involved). And Moses suggestion that these are not too difficult would be a sham since they are really IMPOSSIBLE without the requisite gratitude attitude.
OK I understand the parable shows I have received a great forgiveness, so I need to extend forgiveness to others, hesed.
I also understand there is worthiness imparted to me through His hen, a worthiness I could never earn.
What I can’t make sense of is this: If I am unable to earn righteousness/the initial forgiveness on my own, (because in order to do so I must live a perfect, sinless life) and the Father extends hen towards me, forgives me anyway. Then why/how could He expect me to live the perfect sinless life that he knew before hand that I couldn’t do? This is what doesn’t seem logical to me.
He knows good and well that I am dust, I want to please, glorify, obey Him and actually try to do so. But when I fail I accept that I am only dust, repent and go on and try to learn and apply better next time. I just can’t accept that once we receive His gift that He expects us to live in a way that would cause us to “deserve” the gift that we could not earn in the first place.
Am I conditioned by Christian ideas, well that would be a good assumption/accusation since that is what I have known for most of my life. Lucky you who gets to try and help me shed the baggage. I really am trying to understand what you say here and have said in the past, but something just doesn’t add up for me. It should be simple and I think it is, but something about this threatens to become a huge discouragement. I am really struggling to discern what my life as a grafted in gentile in the Midwest should look like. Maybe I see the person you are describing as a super spiritual perfectionist and my experience with that realm hasn’t been too positive.
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Your Luther is talking. If you are unable to earn righteousness? Can you perform a mitzvah? Doesn’t than “earn” righteousness? Who said you have to live a perfectly sinless life in order to earn righteousness? That’s Luther talking. What do you think the sacrifices are all about? They assume that we CAN do what God wants and when we DON’T do it, there is sacrifice which returns us to the desired status. Does God expect you to live a perfectly sinless life? Where does the text say that? If that were true, why did He provide sacrifices? IS that the GOAL? Yes. You are still using words like “deserve” rather than “validate.” There is a difference.
I am not describing a super spiritual perfectionist. I am describing what the text says about ordinary people. The objective is to get on the road, not to arrive tomorrow.
Take a look at David Lyman’s book on atonement (I think that’s the author – you can find a reference on my web site somewhere.)
That might help clear up a lot.
And stick with it. Perfection is NOT the goal. Righteousness is NOT perfection.
Thank you.
I searched for the book but can’t find it on your recommended list or on Amazon. Is it another author?
I am in London now and on to South Africa. Sorry, but the book is on my shelf at home. I know that I referenced it in my own work, Cross Word Puzzles, but I just can’t remember the author at the moment. If you have Cross Word Puzzles, you will see it footnoted.
OK I will find it there. Have a great trip!
Isn’t the parable actually quite simple? It’s a parable of hesed. So God does you a ‘solid’, He expects you to do the same. Right? You can’t barbecue He doesn’t need anything so He needs you to have loyalty. How do you have loyalty? You do what He says.
It blows out the idea of once saved always saved. You have to do something, day to day it’s a choice. You wake up you self reflect/teshuva you go on with your day, at the end of your day self reflect/teshuva and do it better the next.
If you are concerned with your own legacy, your own name, and aren’t focused on His then bad things happen. Justice will happen if not in this world but in the world to come. I mean is really just an over simplification?
I don’t see anything about worthiness or anything like that. He’s a host of a party He sends an invite, (chen/grace), it has certain criteria on how you are suppose to dress up (mitzvots/commands), to show up to the party you need to wear the right clothes otherwise you don’t get to go to the party. It really does seem fairly simple to me.
clearly, “barbecue ” was meant to be “because” lol
Hi Derek S.
That is a funny typo!! Gotta love spell check(or not)!
It does not seem so complicated to me either until I put back on those modern Christian paradigms. Then almost everything gets very complicated. The two do not mesh together well at all.
I see modern Christendom as extremely burdening and confusing. I rarely got answers that made sense and ended up wondering why I even bothered if God had already chosen who was saved. How was I supposed to know?
Learning what a Hebrew mindset would have been “back then” has been a balm to me. I have learned so much here in this community and watching Skips (and others) struggles and humanness as he tells us about himself, has been a blessing to me as well. It all helps me grow and leave those burdens I spoke of behind. It gives me a peace that is so lacking in this culture.
I have always been an odd bird and imagine I will be that till the day I return to dust! As long as my mindset is to please Y-H, then it does not matter to me what popular opinion is.
But that all depends on whether you look on “being saved” as a process or an event. Many traditional Christians look on it as an event. I disagree. It is a lifelong marathon, not a 100 yard dash.