Can of Worms
Let no one seek his own good, but that of his neighbor. 1 Corinthians 10:24 NASB
His own good – Tomorrow will mark the end of the Julian calendar year. The world at large will celebrate, honoring a Roman alteration to previous tribal and ethnic ways of counting dates. One tradition of renewal is the annual cycle of vows. As a kind of goal-setting behavior, many people will adjust (or make attempts to adjust) their lifestyle choices, and, of course, common knowledge recognizes that nearly all of these vows will subsequently be discarded. Most people will simply continue to do what they have always done. Change is very difficult.
Given the propensity to abandon real change, it seems appropriate to reflect on Paul’s exhortation. In this section of his letter, he discusses the role of kosher food in mixed communities. The question seems to be, “What should I do about eating according to the Torah when I live in an environment that does not pay any attention to these instructions?” Of course, eating is only one of the many lifestyle choices that could cause disagreement, so Paul’s instructions could be expanded. But for the moment, let’s just talk about food. It is unfortunate that common exegesis surrounding this topic begins with the assumption that Paul is writing to Christians who have already abandoned Torah. Nothing could be further from the truth, but with that assumption the text is often read upside-down, as if Paul is telling those who no longer follow Torah practices that they have the upper hand, the correct spiritual approach, to this subject. This anachronistic interpretation fosters enormous exegetical mistakes, particularly with regard to the relationship between Jew and Messianic believer in the first century. The idea that “Christians” in Corinth are instructed to disregard Torah because they have been redeemed from the “Law” subverts all the context and culture of Paul’s approach. This should be obvious given what Paul says in this particular verse.
The NASB adds “good” to the translation. The Greek is actually heautou (“his own”). The word is simply the reflexive personal pronoun. Context adds the noun. We could just as easily translate this as “Let no one seek his own agenda,” or “his own benefit,” or “his own rights.” The emphasis is not on me. It is on the impact my decisions have on my neighbor. A few verses later Paul adds, “Give no offense either to Jews or to Greeks or to the ekklesia of God.” But that would be impossible if Paul were instructing congregants to ignore Torah. Every Jew would be offended, as, in fact, they are today by Christian claims. Clearly, if I am to give no offense and think of my neighbor’s well-being before my own, then I will not assert that I no longer need to live according to the instructions given to Moses. To put it bluntly, I can’t follow Paul’s exhortation and at the same time insist that I am free to live according to my own interpretation of Scripture. If I am to give no offense, I will follow a kosher diet no matter what I think is permissible. If I am to consider my neighbor’s welfare before my own, I will have to live a Torah observant life regardless of what the “Church” teaches me.
So that brings us to the New Year’s vow. Forget the argument about the place of Torah. Forget about the “New Testament” replacement theology. Just ask yourself this: “Am I going to follow Paul’s advice?” You simply cannot pretend that you give no offense, that you put the well-being of your Jewish neighbor first, if you continue to act as though your view of life choices overrides his understanding of Scripture. You can dismiss Paul if you wish, but then can’t claim that your “New Testament” Christianity has anything to do with what Paul actually says.
Here’s a vow for the next Roman calendar year: “I will not offend my Jewish brothers by eating what they would not.” Try that on for size.
Topical Index: kosher, offense, his own good, heautou, 1 Corinthians 10:24
From my underdstanding “keeping kosher” and eating “clean” foods are two different things. In my case, I eat only clean foods with one exception… eating crow; while neither a clean bird nor kosher unfortunately it still seems to be a staple in my diet. New Years resolutions don’t make them less frequent, nor more palatable. Bon appétit and continued blessings.
Crow always tastes better with salt. Lots of salt.
This idea of eating in way as not to offend my Jewish “neighbors” is a tangled issue as many Torah Observant laws are in our culture. My husbands best friend is Jewish (grew up very observant) and chows on things we put away many years ago. We do not seperate meat and dairy or buy only Kosher labeled items but watch closely for gelatin in items and other pork or seafood additives to any foods we eat including vitamins and pills. I know a Jewish lady who is vegan and her Jewish kosher friends will not eat her house. I go to a synagogue where the Rabbi is a vegaterian because he believes that is a way of showing compassion to living things. One of my Jewish friends eats pork and other non-kosher foods and she is a teacher at the Hebrew school at the local reformed synagogue. So the tangled web of what would offened ends up being different for each person. Kind of like observing Shabbat. This is what creates so much frustration for us to find community for our family. In order to find the community that accepts us as non-Jews we find ourselves with those who disregard much of the Torah that we adhere to. The people that we feel are observing the Torah are not as accepting of non-Jewish worshipping with them. So the struggle continues to fit in and yet not compromise ones own convictions.
I’m a struggling person like you. The Jews at my Conservative shul are in need of GREATLY improving their obedience to Torah. The Christians I met in Israel on Skip’s last Israel tour (which was soooo fun) in October are more Jewish than many Jews I know. My rabbi is harder on me because my mom raised us Christian and not Jewish. I watch the Jews raised in the Jewish homes “get away” with things because of there up bringing in a Jewish home. It is a struggle to be positive at times as I observe the “brokeness” in both Judaism and Christianity. I pray you find a happiness soon 🙂
Hey, John. I agree. Israel was sooooo fun on that Israel trip! I would call it a blast! Being one of those ‘Christians’ you mentioned, I have difficulty identifying with that label anymore. Don’t really own a label anymore, just kind of just walking along endeavoring to stay on the Torah path. What a trip!
It was a joy meeting you and sharing a brief visit to Israel with you. May we meet again. Shalom.
It is a melting pot of lifestyles that surrounds me. With no place to do community around here, we simply make it our little weekly group. Even in our group each is figuring out their own commitments. Over all we are moving more and more in the same direction over time. And, yes, it is definitely difficult to decipher what will or will not offend any given encounter. I keep smiling, holding judgement, and endeavor to deepen a relationship. Each occasion is the same in many ways and also different in many ways. Sounds like the difference and sameness from day to day living.
Fear YHVH and keep his commandments, it seems, is an offering of my personal flavor in the end. I yearn for a community fenced in by Torah exhibiting the freedom and understanding of knowing and loving him fully and unashamed.
I believe Skip’s point was to jar those who verbalize a commitment to “1st century Christianity” but who still translate this passage upside down. Sometimes a gentle wack upon the head will help us see the other obvious picture in the paradigm — because once you see it, you will marvel that you ever understood it differently.
The underlying assumption here is not for a perfect walk, it is for STARTING the walk. Torah observance is described as a walk and as with most walks, individuals move at different paces. My walking pace is not yours, but that does not preclude our fellowship if we are headed in the same direction.
Good observation, Suzanne.
Precisely, Suzanne.
I would also agree with Suzanne. From my perspective it seems the older I get the slower my walk becomes.
Shalom Suzanne, Exactly! It is the Torah walk/discipline that matters!
I wonder, Don b, if the walk is slower because you are successfully learning to coordinate with more of those who are stumbling along with you? If so, thank you for adjusting your stumble to mine!
laurita, Why should you be stumbling along, with or, without others?
No doubt there may be some who may stumble along, for whatever reason, for lack of knowledge, e.g. but that ought not be the case IF we hunger and thirst after righteousness, and His truth/ Torah ways.
You are doing fine! Keep on running a good race, no slowing down, we are in crucial times to be firmly planted, no compromising.
Shalom and love to you!
Thank you, Ester, for the vote of confidence! I call it a stumble because it seems like one step forward and two steps back most of the time, as I find I have to drop back and change, or even start over, a lot. But I am finding that as I lose confidence in myself, I am gaining it in YHVH. Now there’s a confidence that I can put my trust in!
May this year be full of shalom and hesed for you and yours, Ester.
“I will follow a kosher diet no matter what I think is permissible. If I am to consider my neighbor’s welfare before my own, I will have to live a Torah observant life regardless of what the “Church” teaches me.”
That, I would say is absolutely the stand Torah observers should do, not only for the sake of our neighbours, but in any given situation, in accordance to our commitment to Torah, foolish to some, challenging to others, and inspiring to seekers..
Why should we cave in to the chaos, when YHWH’s ways are clearly to be upheld. Isn’t that our priority? Folks around us know we do not eat seafood/shellfish, nor pork, no necessity to give reasons. We simply state our personal choices. They know we don’t attend church services, nor keep “Festive Seasons” just for family gatherings, we simply state we believe in the entire Word/Bible,and we don’t belong to any denominations. We are doing all that not to impress men, but to please YHWH.
Shalom!