The Bad, The Good and . .
For since He Himself was tempted in that which He has suffered, He is able to come to the aid of those who are tempted. Hebrews 2:18 NASB
Suffered – Is suffering ever good? If you were a Greek in the first century, you might answer the question, “No!” In fact, even if you were a Jew, you would be hard pressed to find something good about suffering. Notice what TWOT says about the use of this term, páschō, in the LXX.
The word is rare in the LXX since the Hebrew has no corresponding term. We find it in Esth. 9:26; Am. 6:6; Zech. 11:5; Ezek. 16:5. The OT, of course, has much to say about suffering in Job, the Psalms, and Is. 53. The term occurs more commonly in the apocryphal works, e.g., for the sufferings of both Israel’s enemies and of Israel itself, the former as a punishment, the latter as discipline with a view to salvation.[1]
Did you get that? There is no corresponding term in Hebrew. Something else is happening in the Hebrew thought world when it comes to experiencing suffering. But in the first century Greek world, suffering is first and foremost about evil.
The basic meaning of páschō is ‘to experience something that comes from outside.’ At first the ‘something’ is usually bad, and while a neutral use develops, the idea of suffering evil remains so strong that an addition is needed to show that good is meant unless the context is very plain.[2]
The author of the book of Hebrews might be thinking in Hebrew, but he chooses a Greek term to express what happened to the Messiah in his temptations. There can be little doubt that this experience was bad. But it was necessary! That’s the difference. Suffering is not a good thing. We do not seek to suffer in order to increase our spiritual capital. But suffering is necessary. It is a necessary evil of free will.
Choice always includes suffering. It might not seem like that on the surface, but every choice excludes other possible outcomes and since other possible outcomes could be potentially beneficial, every choice implies suffering the loss of other possibilities. Even when we are not immediately aware of these possibilities, we often say something like this: “Oh, if I had only done such-and-such, things would have been different.” We recognize after the fact that our choices excluded other options. Perhaps Hebrew doesn’t have a word to fit this since Hebrew thought considers the sovereignty of God as a fundamental fact of the universe. God’s engineering and human choice are somehow both operative, but only God’s engineering seems evident when we reconsider past choices. Things couldn’t have been different than they actually were because God’s hand was present all along.
Now consider this verse in Hebrews. Yeshua suffered. The very possibility of temptation is suffering, even if righteous choices are made. And since he suffered just as we do, he knows what it is like to have to choose. He knows what it means to take one path instead of another. He knows how we feel when we say, “Oh, if only I had . . . .” And because he knows from the same experiential basis, he can help. That doesn’t mean he can spare us the suffering. Suffering isn’t good; it’s just necessary. But he knows that.
The role of the Messiah, the man who acts as our intercessor, God’s chosen agent, is underscored in this verse. He helps. He helps because he knows the trouble we face in the choices we make. He’s been there. A Messiah who cannot experience the suffering of choice is not a Messiah who can help me for I am a broken human being, ravaged by choice and past regret. I need a Messiah whose own choices show me how to suffer and be victorious at the same time. Thank God He sent one.
Topical Index: suffer, páschō, choice, Hebrews 2:18
[1] Kittel, G., Friedrich, G., & Bromiley, G. W. (1985). Theological Dictionary of the New Testament (798–799). Grand Rapids, MI: W.B. Eerdmans.
[2] Kittel, G., Friedrich, G., & Bromiley, G. W. (1985). Theological Dictionary of the New Testament (798). Grand Rapids, MI: W.B. Eerdmans.
Thank God that Messiah went to the cross and died for us to finish
the work that sin left Him with no other choice.
How necessary indeed that He willed to come to complete the divine plan
of the Father set before the foundation of the world.
I know what I’m most thankful for this Thanksgiving.
Oh, the agony of choice!
How many times have I “halted between two opinions”?
Second-guessing our own choices is the first lesson we learn in this guess-and-check world, it seems, for we learn by the experience of suffering HOW to choose – and not – OR not. We have to learn the futility of confidence in our own choice abilities before we can entertain the idea that we may need choice help, but the next thing we seem to try out is choosing(!) someone else to do our choosing for us. We join churches and other choice institutions and get married to seemingly confident people who want to tell us what to do and vote in laws that limit or direct our choices for us and line up around the corners of choice gurus. OK. So, eventually, the flesh of others fails us, too.
To not KNOW hurts worse than anything, but we have to face that pain to be able to get to the choice of faith. Only faith is able to get us through the pain of the don’t-knows, but we have to be willing to accept that no flesh does know. Faith, experientially, speaking, is the choice we become willing to make only after we have exhausted all the other ‘real’ choices that the flesh can see, because it cannot ‘see’ the choices of faith. Faith is where we have to leave behind the eyes of the flesh, and the choices of the flesh, too. Faith is the step over the threshold of the spiritual realm. Suffering is where we become willing to take that step.
I think we have to get sick and tired of the sum total of the choices we think we can make in our states of trust brokenness before faith even becomes possible; at least, I know that was true for me. It takes suffering to convince us to let go of the bone of pseudo-choice, for in the flesh, NONE of our choices can ultimately give us life; all of them are going to limit our next choice possibilities, and require us to rob Peter to pay Paul to implement them. Ouch! It is because we instinctually know this that choice appears scary to us. Y’all, we really do need to listen to our own suffering more! It’s really trying to tell us something!
Skip you wrote: “Suffering isn’t good; it’s just necessary”. The Patriarch Joseph knew suffering intimately and because he knew from Whom it came he knew that he would eventually know the why. “You meant to do me harm, but God meant it for good — so that it would come about as it is today, with many people’s lives being saved.” (B’resheet 50:20 CJB)
I have, you have, we all have suffered and suffer yet still, but until we come to see (and know) the heart behind the hidden hand we will continue to howl with the dogs, devils and the deranged at the injustice, the slight or the pain. Open my eyes and heart Yeshua so that I might see, sing and stand.