Passing It On

We will not conceal them from our children, but tell to the generation to come the praises of the LORD, and His strength and His wondrous works that He has done. Psalm 78:4  NASB

Not conceal– What parent would even hide something vitally important and beneficial from a child?  Actually, nearly all parents.  You see, the culture of origin that does not worship the King and pass His instructions to its children essentially deprives those children of life’s most valuable treasure.  Even worse, those parents sign the death warrant for their children, relegating them to lives of confusion and emptiness, vain hopes and shattered dreams.  Why, oh why would any parent do such a thing?  The answer is a tangled simplicity.  A sinful lack of true perspective.  If I believe that life is about me, my goals, my dreams and my efforts, then my reach will not exceed my grasp and I will be locked in the labyrinth of the yetzer ha’ra.  I can still achieve great things, but they will be straw before the Throne.  Unless I see that life, my life, is about God and His purposes, I will have no urgency to share this bigger-than-me vision with my children.  As a result, they will have no bigger-than-me vision of their own existence.  I will have accidentally concealed from them the one thing that lifts human perspective beyond feet treading the path—God’s glory.

I think about my daughter.  She is a grown woman now, but I remember those days when she was very little, rambunctious, curious, precocious.  I remember the moment she was born as if it were yesterday, only better.  When I read David, I also remember the heartache of not adequately revealing the glory of the Lord to this precious person.  I drifted through the malaise of success, the pointlessness of prosperity, and the emptiness of a life preoccupied with myself.  All that time I claimed to be a Christian, a devotee without discipline, an adherent of religious persuasion without transforming conviction.  What did I teach my daughter?  That life is about how I feel, what I want, how hard I work.  I didn’t point her to the glory beyond me, the reason for being in the world.  Perhaps she will forgive me—and look for the things I concealed in ignorant myopia.

“We will not conceal,” says David.  This is not simply an individual’s affirmation.  David speaks for an entire people, a culture of revelation. The verb is kahad.  It means to keep something back, to refuse to make something known.  Notice that this verb has a prefixed Nun.  That changes the meaning from a declarative command to a performative request.  “We will please not conceal.”  It is a deliberate choice, not an accidental byproduct of culture.  God does not hide.  If we seek Him, we will find Him.  For this reason, He sends His messengers.  The Hebraic worldview is the worldview of the prophets, those called by God to show His people who He is and what He demands.  The greatest gift I could give my daughter is a sense of the prophetic moment placed in her hands: the awe of being alive, the mystery of God’s ultimate purposes, and the invitation to be involved.  These things I wish for her today and every day for the rest of my life.  Perhaps it is not too late.

Topical Index:  not conceal, lo nekahed, Psalm 78:4

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Judi Baldwin

It’s not too late Skip. God is not as interested in where you’ve been as much as where you are going. He sees who you are today, how far you have come in your journey. I believe He honors that. He knows how much you love your daughter and want God’s best for her. And, she also sees who you are today. I have a feeling that that influences who she is and how she lives. I’m certainly praying for that…for your daughter, as well as my two sons.

Cloud9

Thanks for this post it will be one of my favorites going forward, as I prepare and perfect my 2020 vision (aligned with God’s purposes of course). Thanks Skip for sharing the real thoughts of an awakened parent. Thanks for not concealing. His grace is sufficient …

And He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.” Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me. Therefore I am well content with weaknesses, with insults, with distresses, with persecutions, with difficulties, for Christ’s sake; for when I am weak, then I am strong.
2 Corinthians 12:9-10 – NASB

Rich Pease

If you KNOW God, you won’t conceal Him.
He’ll show through you.
“Whoever does not love does not know God,
because God is love. This is how God showed
His love among us: He sent His one and only Son
into the world that we might live through him.” 1Jn4:8-9
If you just know ABOUT God, there’s nothing for you
to show . . . yet . . . but hope still abounds.
“But I, when I am lifted up from the earth, will draw
all men to myself.” Jn 12:32
So we pray for all people, especially our dear families
and friends. As God draws them, may He be seen in us.

Laurita Hayes

Oh, the ache of what-might-have-been. Every parent has it! It’s awful for me! That ache drives me. I saw it drive my mama to choose to die of cancer at my house because she couldn’t see another way to deal with it. I am trying to conform the rest of my life to a correction of the past, for my children’s sake. So help me, God. Thank you, Skip.

Cynthia Adams

Thank you, Skip! I have always said that our greatest joy in raising our sons is that they walk in faith with The Ever Present Lord in spite of our failures and shortcomings. That is a not a result of doing something right, it is the result of years of prayer and trust in His promises. Is. 54:13, Is, 59:21, Deut. 4:40, Deut. 7:9…and on and on. Our Father always keeps His promises. We just have to do our part in the garden of life to plant the seeds of faith, water with prayer, tend the shoots, remove the weeds, and pray for the Son that will bring a healthy crop. The joy comes from seeing the fruit! Without the Son, you labor in vain.

John Adam

This is painfully beautiful, Skip. Painful because I too feel that I have failed my children in this regard, in part because of my failure to be the man God called me to be…beautiful because of it’s profound yet complex simplicity – to show forth God’s glory in all we do and are…thank you so much for this post.

Kay

Dearest Skip,

There are so many things that have endeared you to me as a teacher. And one of the top ones is your fearlessness! Your fearlessness in admitting when you make mistakes (esp. in doctrines) (truly you’re a rare breed!)…fearlessness in exposing your vulnerabilities. Scripture calls this humility. I have yet to meet a teacher like you.

I pray that your precious daughter will see you for who you are now, and recognize the power of our Father’s ruach in your amazing transformation! May she reap and be blessed by everything that you have sown and are still sowing. After all, kingdom work is for the perpetuation of LIFE (Yah’s word)…for the next generation…and the generations to come! You are both very blessed!!! ?

Heather C

Cue tears.